Thursday, February 14, 2008

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No smile is more beautiful than the one that struggles through tears

There's a smile on my face but I don't know why its there
I put it on to satisfy all the people that don't even care

I want to be remembered as the one who
Always smiles even when his heart is broken,
And the one who would always brighten up your day
Even when he couldn�t brighten up his own

The past may hurt, but you can either run from it...
Or learn from it, the choice is up to you.

Sometimes you've got to get hurt in order to grow,
Sometimes our visions seem clearer after our eyes are washed out with tears

Have a good cry, wash out your heart. If you keep it inside it'll tear you apart. Sometimes you lose, but you're going to win if you just hang in.

The loneliest feeling in the world to be crying and no one is there for you.

I feel oh-so-forgotten, so betrayed and so alone,
without a trace of forgiveness, and no soul to call my own

So sorry for the person I became.
So sorry that it took so long for me to change.
I'm ready to try and never become that way again
Cause who I am hates who I've been.

I�m mad at myself, not at you. I�m mad for always being nice,
always apologizing for things I didn't do...

Tired of trying, sick of crying
Yeah I'm smiling, but inside I'm dying...

It's like taking me to the highest mountain,
showing me the world, and saying
this is what you can't have.

I don't use excuses, don't ask why
It's just a breakdown, it happens all the time
So get out of my face, don't even try
You want to help me? Just let me cry

My heart has been beaten and bruised
and I'm pretty fucking confused, & I always expect to lose.
I'll explain it all to you through alcohol and bad tattoos
If I talk and I laugh too loud its because I'm trying to forget that I'm sad,
because some things can get pretty bad, but I'd like to believe
that somewhere I'll find you going nowhere... and we'll go there together

Feelings I used to have aren't there,
And for the first time in so long,
I really just don't care...

I want to be remembered as the man who always smiled
even when his heart was broken and the one who could always
brighten up your day even if he couldn't brighten his own.

Lie to me and tell me everything's okay,
because soon there will come a day
when I wont be here for you to tell me
that when I'm with you, you're happy...

My heart is on my sleeve
I wear it like a bruise or black eye
My badge, my witness
That means that I believed
Every single lie you said...

My heart is on my sleeve
I wear it like a bruise or black eye
My badge, my witness
That means that I believed
Every single lie you said...

I didn't want to admit it, it was easier to lie,
And hide the hurt and emptiness, to smile instead of cry

When will it be my turn, when will I ever get anything in return?

Why must I be the one to suffer all this pain,

and yet in the end have nothing to gain?

So I'd prefer to be remembered as a smiling face,
Not this fucking wreck that's taken its place

Everyone's going to hurt you sooner or later you
just have to decide who's worth going through the pain

Sometimes when I say �Oh, I�m fine� I want someone
to look me in the eyes & say �tell the truth�

I'll write your name on a bullet so everyone will know
You were the last thing to go through my mind

My eyes burn from these tears
You think you'd learn over these years
Good things won't last forever.

I�m tired of hiding behind these lying eyes
I�m tired of this smile that I don�t even recognize

When someone really loves you, they will never hurt you.
And if they do, you can see it in their eyes that it hurts them too...

If you ask yourself the question, is it really worth the pain?
The answer might surprise you because the sun is worth the rain.

Pain doesn't hurt if it's all you've ever felt.

The darkest skies have the brightest stars

tears are the words my heart
uses to explain when even my
fake smiles cant cover up my pain

I lock away the pain put away the fears
show you only smiles not the hidden tears

The room starts to spin as I lay on the floor.
I�m used to the chills; I�ve had them before.
I begin to drift away as my eyes begin to close.
Once again hiding what nobody knows.
I wake to a shouting voice; it's time for me to go;
Another day of hiding secrets that no one will ever know

I cannot forget, Refuse to regret
So glad I met you,

Take my breath away
Make everyday

Worth all of the pain
that I have gone through


There's nothing that feels worse than feeling like you weren't
good enough for the person that meant everything to you...

If you don't know, then ask me. If you don't agree, then argue with me.
If you don't like, then say it to me. But don't keep silent and judge me.

You haven't felt pain until you can't feel it anymore.

Such rage that you could scream
All the stars right out of the sky
And destroy the prettiest starry night
Every evening that I die.

You can't see when I'm hurting
You'll never be able to notice the pain
It feels like everyone else
Is sitting in the sunshine
While I'm drowning in the rain

You can't hurt someone unless you really mean something to them

It's not how bad the problem is, but how
badly it's hurting the person who has it

It's hard to answer the question
"What's wrong?" when nothings right...

I wish I could find out what's
wrong with me.. So I can say,
This is the way that I used to be...

Not all scars show, not all wounds heal
Sometimes you can't always see
The pain someone feels

When the last teardrop falls
I will stand tall
And hold onto the memories
Of how you used to be

Monday, December 31, 2007

Perfect Love - Loving without Fear or Expectation



Sometimes we hate what we used to love. We think that which we love is unworthy of our love because it has let us down greatly in some way or another. We feel like withdrawing all our love and give it to somewhere else that is more worthy to receive. It might be true that we’re in love with the wrong person, but it could also be true that we ourselves are not yet right to love that person. The negative situation we experience is meant to help us discover ourselves and what loving unconditionally really means.

Hate is an emotion that is meant to be used as an aggressive defense against any form of evil. It is a destructive force against anything that is destructive towards you. When you feel hate or anger, it just means that someone is doing something that hurts you. It is a form of self love that seeks to protect you and severe anything that isn’t beneficial for you.
There is nothing wrong with the way you feel because your emotions serve as a feedback and motivating force to move towards that which is good in life.

It is when you understand what your emotions are telling you, and the reason why you feel that way, that enables you to truly resolve everything in your inner world. The reason why you feel hate and anger is because the person is doing something that hurts you. Your love for yourself repels against such an act. You feel unacknowledged, unappreciated or somehow mistreated in one way or another by the other person. Therefore you seek to redress the wrong or undeserved suffering caused by that person.

You may think that the person is no longer right for you to love or relate with, and you are right coming from the level of consciousness where you are at. But when you discover something beyond that, you may turn your entire perspective around and feel totally different. You see, the reason why you feel unacknowledged is because you need acknowledgement from that person. The reason why you feel unappreciated is because you need appreciation from that person. You need something that is lacking.

You feel mistreated because you require that person to treat you in a certain way. It is when that person isn’t being or doing what you expect, that you feel disappointed in loving him or her. You wonder why should you continue being so good and nice to that person when you are being treated so unfairly in return. What you may not realize is how conditional your love for that person really is. You have so many conditions and requirements on what that person should be or do in order for you to love him or her.

Sometimes, the only way to resolve a friendship or relationship problem is to bring it to an end. When we are in a friendship or relationship, we tend to have an expectation of mutual appreciation, acknowledgment and love expressions. That is the way a normal friendship is supposed to be right? Yes, that’s how it is supposed to be. But a true friendship does not have any suppositions or expectations of what the friendship should be like. True friendship can exist even when the parties are not normal friends.

What happens when the relationship or friendship with the person has ended in the normal sense? There is no longer an expectation or need for that person to give you acknowledgment, appreciation or anything for that matter. The same goes for you as well. You no longer need to give that person anything at all. But now you are in a space where if you feel love, appreciation and kindness for that person, you can still give it if you wish. You can now give out of a heart that is totally free and unconditional.

That is the irony of a true friendship that exists without a friendship in the normal sense of the word. You can’t feel unappreciated when you do not need appreciation. You can’t feel unacknowledged when you do not need acknowledgement. You can’t be mistreated when you do not need the person to treat you in a certain way. Most of all, you can’t be hurt when there’s nothing the person can do to make you feel hurt. Because now that person can’t take anything from you or give you what you already have.

When you feel true love for another, the love you have is not your own, but it is God expressing through you. You may feel anger, hurt and resentment because of your expectation of how that person should treat you. But when all those expectations and requirements are gone, what is left is the pure unconditional love that is always present beneath it all. Everything else is just meant for you to discover where you are being conditional and limited in your heart. But when you let go, you can love totally.

You don’t need to end the friendship or relationship in the literal sense, but you just need to imagine what’s it like being a true friend or being loving when the friendship or relationship isn’t required. True love is free without needing anything in return. To truly love is to love unconditionally, without judgment of that which you love. There is no fear in perfect love. Whoever that fears is not yet made perfect in love. When you love perfectly, you do not judge yourself or the other because you accept both completely.

Love yourself for all that you are because you are worth it. From the place of complete self love and self acceptance, you are able to love another with an unconditional heart. Because you do not need anything back. Therefore you can’t be hurt at all. You can love without fear. Remember the saying, “Work like you don’t need the money, dance like no one’s watching and love like you’ve never been hurt before”. Love like you’ve never been hurt before. It is the pure, fearless and unconditional giving of yourself.